Nobody ever said that life was perfect or that it would be easy. Not at all. Still, that does not mean that if something goes wrong or gets screwed up; that it's the end all be all. In fact, some of the best results have come from failures and that's also the best way to learn. I have learned this over many, many years of my life and it is so very true. It also means to take time, in order to accomplish the things we want to. Again, nothing is going to happen overnight. It will always require hard work to achieve something.
When somebody makes a mistake, there is always a lesson to be learned. I am grateful for those lessons, as they have taught me so much. Sometimes, they might be painful at first, but the knowledge paves the way for brighter days. Take it easy, breathe & go slowly.