Monday, March 31, 2014
You can’t underestimate a person who always works hard. Be that person. In life, you don’t get what you wish for; you get what you work for. Always remember that the task ahead of you is never greater than the strength within you. Do what’s right, not what’s easy. Your dreams are worth it.
Life doesn't have feelings and can't feel what you are going through. It's hard to push forward if you let something hold you back. People have bad days, bad moments and bad hours; yet they still manage to get things done. What makes any of us so special, that we feel the rules don't apply? No matter what, the sun will rise tomorrow and a new day will be here. That means you have a new 24 hours to make it mean something. I know every decision I make, has already been made before I actually make it and a key element of life is take responsibility for our actions. Being accountable is a good trait; it means we admit to doing, saying, acting certain ways. The reason doesn't matter, it's already done and can't be undone. The worst thing a person can do, is to make excuses. I have learned this the hard way, from experience. I have stumbled so many times, that I laugh after a while. It's not so much amusing, as it is an admission of my mistake. If I use laughter to help me learn from my mistakes, I can be a better person each time and even smile about it. I have a lot of work to do and I am going to do that work. Some of it is spiritual, some job-related and some is relationship improvement. If I fail to get what needs to be done, the results will be horrible and I do not want that. It all needs to be done, in order to live life to its fullest. In fact, there are rewards that can't be measured by any means. They are the little things that add up to be big things. I have a lot of work to do, but it is all more than worthwhile. This is a daily process with no expiration date, until we expire.
Saturday, March 29, 2014
When other people treat you poorly, keep being you. Don’t ever let someone else’s bitterness change the person you are. Don’t let the silly little dramas of each day get you down either. Stay positive when negativity surrounds you. It takes one positive thought to overpower an array of negative ones. People who are able to find the one positive point in negative situations are the ones who never give up.
If you care too much about what other people think, in a way, you will always be their prisoner. You are good enough, smart enough, and strong enough. You don’t need other people to validate you; you’re already valuable. Don't ever forget that!
Don’t let past relationships and old mistakes ruin your future. Don’t let someone or something that didn’t make it in your life continue to hurt you. If you do, you’re still giving a portion of your life to something that no longer exists – it’s like letting your happiness slip into a black hole. Learn the lesson, release the pain, and move on. Scars remind us of where we have been, not where we are headed.
Your soulmate is not someone that comes into your life peacefully. It is who comes to make you question things, who changes your reality, somebody that marks a before and after in your life. It is not the human being everyone has idealized, but an ordinary person, who manages to revolutionize your world in a second.
When things go wrong as they sometimes will. When the road you are trudging seems all uphill; when the funds are low, and the debts are high, and you want to smile, but you have to sigh; when care is pressing you down a bit - rest if you must, but don't quit.
life is a learning process. we never stop learning. sometimes, we stumble. we're human and not perfect. what's important, is to learn and put the work in to get what needs to be done. nobody ever said it would be easy, but I promise it'll be worth it. rock on and keep your eyes on the prize. #kugey#quotes